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The poem is divided into two parts, and the first part sets the stage with a seemingly idyllic picture: "You sleep in a room with bluegreen curtains / posters a pile of animals on the bed / A woman and a man who love you / and each other slip the door ajar." The child is surrounded by affection and security, a loving family that seems to embody a wholesome ideal. Yet Rich immediately disrupts this serene image with the paradoxical lines: "This happens every night for years. / This never happened." The dream is both a recurring ritual and an impossibility. We are left to wonder which story is true, or if the truth oscillates between these extremes. In the second part, the poem becomes a meditation on the missing pieces of the familial puzzle, the unspoken and the unasked. The speaker notes that the child's "lips steady never say / It should have been this way." Instead of overt questioning or accusation, there is a "carefully not asking, Why?" The child's eyes "remind me of a woman's / auburn hair my mother's hair / but you never saw that hair." These lines evoke a sense of generational disconnect, a link that has been severed or concealed. Rich then alludes to the complexities that bind and divide families: "The family coil so twisted, tight and loose / anyone trying to leave / has to strafe the field / burn the premise down." Families can be both confining and disjointing, with shared history serving as both an anchor and a weight. Departure or distancing requires a certain form of destruction, perhaps a dismantling of myths, traditions, or even identities. The concluding lines extend this tension to a broader historical and cultural scope. The poem suggests that we are all drawn to the narratives and graveyards of our ancestors, "where generations lie / side by side with each other." But these narratives and graveyards often hide unsettling truths. "You will want to believe that nobody / wandered off became strange," the poem concludes, implying that family myths are seductive because they offer the comfort of order, a shield against the random chaos and wounds that life often brings. "In the Wake of Home" is a poignant exploration of the ambiguities that inhabit our notions of home and family. It is a poem that does not offer easy answers but leaves us with a more profound understanding of the questions. Rich's work remains an invitation to confront the complexity and contradiction within the stories we inherit and those we create, urging us to be as truthful as we can in a world of manifold uncertainties. Copyright (c) 2024 PoetryExplorer | Discover our Poem Explanations and Poet Analyses!Other Poems of Interest...BLOOD ON THE WHEEL by ALEXANDER ANDERSON FROM AN EXCAVATION ON THE WARRIOR RIVER by ESTHER BARRETT ARGO PEARLS OF THE FAITH: 4. AL-MALIK by EDWIN ARNOLD I CLEANED MY HOUSE TODAY by KATHARINE CANBY BALDERSTON THE TIMES by ANNA LETITIA BARBAULD JOCHANAN HAKKADOSH by ROBERT BROWNING THINKING OF SAINTS AND OF PETRONIUS ARBITHE by MARY BUTTS (1890-1937) |
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