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Classic and Contemporary Poetry
A CASTAWAY, by AUGUSTA DAVIES WEBSTER Poem Explanation Poet's Biography First Line: Poor little diary, with its simple thoughts Last Line: Most welcome, dear: one gets so moped alone. Alternate Author Name(s): Home, Cecil; Webster, Mrs. Julia Augusta Subject(s): Prostitution; Women; Harlots; Whores; Brothels | |||
POOR little diary, with its simple thoughts, Its good resolves, its "Studied French an hour," "Read Modern History," "Trimmed up my grey hat," "Darned stockings," "Tatted," "Practised my new song," "Went to the daily service," "Took Bess soup," "Went out to tea." Poor simple diary! And did I write it? Was I this good girl, This budding colourless young rose of home? Did I so live content in such a life, Seeing no larger scope, nor asking it, Than this small constant roundold clothes to mend, New clothes to make, then go and say my prayers, Or carry soup, or take a little walk And pick the ragged-robins in the hedge? Then, for ambition, (was there ever life That could forego that?) to improve my mind And know French better and sing harder songs; For gaiety, to go, in my best white Well washed and starched and freshened with new bows, And take tea out to meet the clergyman. No wishes and no cares, almost no hopes, Only the young girl's hazed and golden dreams That veil the Future from her. So long since: And now it seems a jest to talk of me As if I could be one with her, of me Who am ... me. And what is that? My looking-glass Answers it passably; a woman sure, No fiend, no slimy thing out of the pools, A woman with a ripe and smiling lip That has no venom in its touch I think, With a white brow on which there is no brand; A woman none dare call not beautiful, Not womanly in every woman's grace. Aye, let me feed upon my beauty thus, Be glad in it like painters when they see At last the face they dreamed but could not find Look from their canvas on them, triumph in it, The dearest thing I have. Why, 'tis my all, Let me make much of it: is it not this, This beauty, my own curse at once and tool To snare men's souls, (I know what the good say Of beauty in such creatures) is it not this That makes me feel myself a woman still, With still some little pride, some little Stop! "Some little pride, some little"Here's a jest! What word will fit the sense but modesty? A wanton I, but modest! Modest, true; I'm not drunk in the streets, ply not for hire At infamous corners with my likenesses Of the humbler kind; yes, modesty's my word 'Twould shape my mouth well too, I think I'll try: "Sir, Mr. What-you-will, Lord Who-knows-what, My present lover or my next to come, Value me at my worth, fill your purse full, For I am modest; yes, and honour me As though your schoolgirl sister or your wife Could let her skirts brush mine or talk of me; For I am modest." Well, I flout myself: But yet, but yet Fie, poor fantastic fool, Why do I play the hypocrite alone, Who am no hypocrite with others by? Where should be my "But yet"? I am that thing Called half a dozen dainty names, and none Dainty enough to serve the turn and hide The one coarse English worst that lurks beneath: Just that, no worse, no better. And, for me, I say let no one be above her trade; I own my kindredship with any drab Who sells herself as I, although she crouch In fetid garrets and I have a home All velvet and marqueterie and pastilles, Although she hide her skeleton in rags And I set fashions and wear cobweb lace: The difference lies but in my choicer ware, That I sell beauty and she ugliness; Our traffic's oneI'm no sweet slaver-tongue To gloze upon it and explain myself A sort of fractious angel misconceived Our traffic's one: I own it. And what then? I know of worse that are called honourable. Our lawyers, who with noble eloquence And virtuous outbursts lie to hang a man, Or lie to save him, which way goes the fee: Our preachers, gloating on your future hell For not believing what they doubt themselves: Our doctors, who sort poisons out by chance And wonder how they'll answer, and grow rich: Our journalists, whose business is to fib And juggle truths and falsehoods to and fro: Our tradesmen, who must keep unspotted names And cheat the least like stealing that they can: Ourall of them, the virtuous worthy men Who feed on the world's follies, vices, wants, And do their businesses of lies and shams Honestly, reputably, while the world Claps hands and cries "good luck," which of their trades, Their honourable trades, barefaced like mine, All secrets brazened out, would shew more white? And whom do I hurt more than they? as much? The wives? Poor fools, what do I take from them Worth crying for or keeping? If they knew What their fine husbands look like seen by eyes That may perceive there are more men than one! But, if they can, let them just take the pains To keep them: 'tis not such a mighty task To pin an idiot to your apron-string; And wives have an advantage over us, (The good and blind ones have) the smile or pout Leaves them no secret nausea at odd times. Oh, they could keep their husbands if they cared, But 'tis an easier life to let them go, And whimper at it for morality. Oh! those shrill carping virtues, safely housed From reach of even a smile that should put red On a decorous cheek, who rail at us With such a spiteful scorn and rancorousness, (Which maybe is half envy at the heart) And boast themselves so measurelessly good And us so measurelessly unlike them, What is their wondrous merit that they stay In comfortable homes whence not a soul Has ever thought of tempting them, and wear No kisses but a husband's upon lips There is no other man desires to kiss Refrain in fact from sin impossible? How dare they hate us so? what have they done, What borne, to prove them other than we are? What right have they to scorn usglass-case saints, Dianas under lock and keywhat right More than the well-fed helpless barn-door fowl To scorn the larcenous wild-birds? Pshaw, let be! Scorn or no scorn, what matter for their scorn? I have outfaced my ownthat's harder work. Aye, let their virtuous malice dribble on Mock snowstorms on the stageI'm proof long since: I have looked coolly on my what and why, And I accept myself. Oh I'll endorse The shamefullest revilings mouthed at me, Cry "True! Oh perfect picture! Yes, that's I!" And add a telling blackness here and there, And then dare swear you, every nine of ten, My judges and accusers, I'd not change My conscience against yours, you who tread out Your devil's pilgrimage along the roads That take in church and chapel, and arrange A roundabout and decent way to hell. Well, mine's a short way and a merry one: So says my pious hash of ohs and ahs, Choice texts and choicer threats, appropriate names, (Rahabs and Jezebels) some fierce Tartuffe Hurled at me through the post. We had rare fun Over that tract digested with champagne. Where is it? where's my rich repertory Of insults Biblical? 'I prey on souls' Only my men have oftenest none I think: 'I snare the simple ones'but in these days There seem to be none simple and none snared And most men have their favourite sinnings planned To do them civilly and sensibly: 'I braid my hair'but braids are out of date: 'I paint my cheeks'I always wear them pale: 'I' Pshaw! the trash is savourless to-day: One cannot laugh alone. There, let it burn. What, does the windy dullard think one needs His wisdom dove-tailed on to Solomon's, His threats out-threatening God's, to teach the news That those who need not sin have safer souls? We know it, but we've bodies to save too; And so we earn our living. Well lit, tract! At least you've made me a good leaping blaze. Up, up, how the flame shoots! and now 'tis dead. Oh proper finish, preaching to the last No such bad omen either; sudden end, And no sad withering horrible old age. How one would clutch at youth to hold it tight! And then to know it gone, to see it gone, Be taught its absence by harsh careless looks, To live forgotten, solitary, old The cruellest word that ever woman learns. Oldthat's to be nothing, or to be at best A blurred memorial that in better days There was a woman once with such a name. No, no, I could not bear it: death itself Shows kinder promise ... even death itself, Since it must come one day Oh this grey gloom! This rain, rain, rain, what wretched thoughts it brings! Death: I'll not think of it. Will no one come? 'Tis dreary work alone. Why did I read That silly diary? Now, sing-song, ding-dong, Come the old vexing echoes back again, Church bells and nursery good-books, back again Upon my shrinking ears that had forgotten I hate the useless memories: 'tis fools' work Singing the hacknied dirge of 'better days': Best take Now kindly, give the past good-bye, Whether it were a better or a worse. Yes, yes, I listened to the echoes once, The echoes and the thoughts from the old days. The worse for me: I lost my richest friend, And that was all the difference. For the world, I would not have that flight known. How they'd roar: "What! Eulalie, when she refused us all, 'Ill' and 'away,' was doing Magdalene, Tears, ashes, and her Bible, and then off To hide her in a Refuge ... for a week!" A wild whim that, to fancy I could change My new self for my old because I wished! Since then, when in my languid days there comes That craving, like homesickness, to go back To the good days, the dear old stupid days, To the quiet and the innocence, I know. 'Tis a sick fancy and try palliatives. What is it? You go back to the old home, And 'tis not your home, has no place for you, And, if it had, you could not fit you in it. And could I fit me to my former self? If I had had the wit, like some of us, To sow my wild-oats into three per cents, Could I not find me shelter in the peace Of some far nook where none of them would come, Nor whisper travel from this scurrilous world (That gloats, and moralizes through its leers) To blast me with my fashionable shame? There I mightoh my castle in the clouds! And where's its rent?but there, were there a there, I might again live the grave blameless life Among such simple pleasures, simple cares: But could they be my pleasures, be my cares? The blameless life, but never the content Never. How could I henceforth be content With any life but one that sets the brain In a hot merry fever with its stir? What would there be in quiet rustic days, Each like the other, full of time to think, To keep one bold enough to live at all? Quiet is hell, I sayas if a woman Could bear to sit alone, quiet all day, And loathe herself and sicken on her thoughts. They tried it at the Refuge, and I failed: I could not bear it. Dreary hideous room, Coarse pittance, prison rules, one might bear these And keep one's purpose; but so much alone, And then made faint and weak and fanciful By change from pampering to half-famishing Good God, what thoughts come! Only one week more And 'twould have ended: but in one day more I must have killed myself. And I loathe death, The dreadful foul corruption with who knows What future after it. Well, I came back, Back to my slough. Who says I had my choice? Could I stay there to die of some mad death? And if I rambled out into the world Sinless but penniless, what else were that But slower death, slow pining shivering death By misery and hunger? Choice! what choice Of living well or ill? could I have that? And who would give it me? I think indeed If some kind hand, a woman'sI hate men Had stretched itself to help me to firm ground, Taken a chance and risked my falling back, I could have gone my way not falling back: But, let her be all brave, all charitable, How could she do it? Such a trifling boon A little work to live by, 'tis not much And I might have found will enough to last: But where's the work? More sempstresses than shirts; And defter hands at white work than are mine Drop starved at last: dressmakers, milliners, Too many too they say; and then their trades Need skill, apprenticeship. And who so bold As hire me for their humblest drudgery? Not even for scullery slut; not even, I think, For governess although they'd get me cheap. And after all it would be something hard, With the marts for decent women overfull, If I could elbow in and snatch a chance And oust some good girl so, who then perforce Must come and snatch her chance among our crowd. Why, if the worthy men who think all's done If we'll but come where we can hear them preach, Could bring us all, or any half of us, Into their fold, teach all us wandering sheep, Or only half of us, to stand in rows And baa them hymns and moral songs, good lack, What would they do with us? what could they do? Just think! with were't but half of us on hand To find work for ... or husbands. Would they try To ship us to the colonies for wives? Well, well, I know the wise ones talk and talk: "Here's cause, here's cure:" "No, here it is, and here:" And find society to blame, or law, The Church, the men, the women, too few schools, Too many schools, too much, too little taught: Somewhere or somehow someone is to blame: But I say all the fault's with God himself Who puts too many women in the world. We ought to die off reasonably and leave As many as the men want, none to waste. Here's cause; the woman's superfluity: And for the cure, why, if it were the law, Say, every year, in due percentages, Balancing them with males as the times need, To kill off female infants, 'twould make room; And some of us would not have lost too much, Losing life ere we know what it can mean. The other day I saw a woman weep Beside her dead child's bed: the little thing Lay smiling, and the mother wailed half mad, Shrieking to God to give it back again. I could have laughed aloud: the little girl Living had but her mother's life to live; There she lay smiling, and her mother wept To know her gone! My mother would have wept. Oh, mother, mother, did you ever dream, You good grave simple mother, you pure soul No evil could come nigh, did you once dream In all your dying cares for your lone girl Left to fight out her fortune helplessly That there would be this danger?for your girl, Taught by you, lapped in a sweet ignorance, Scarcely more wise of what things sin could be Than some young child a summer six months old, Where in the north the summer makes a day, Of what is darkness ... darkness that will come To-morrow suddenly. Thank God at least For this much of my life, that when you died, That when you kissed me dying, not a thought Of this made sorrow for you, that I too Was pure of even fear. Oh yes, I thought, Still new in my insipid treadmill life, (My father so late dead), and hopeful still, There might be something pleasant somewhere in it, Some sudden fairy come, no doubt, to turn My pumpkin to a chariot, I thought then That I might plod and plod and drum the sounds Of useless facts into unwilling ears, Tease children with dull questions half the day Then con dull answers in my room at night Ready for next day's questions, mend quill pens And cut my fingers, add up sums done wrong And never get them right; teach, teach, and teach What I half knew, or not at allteach, teach For years, a lifetimeI! And yet, who knows? It might have been, for I was patient once, And willing, and meant well; it might have been Had I but still clung on in my first place A safe dull place, where mostly there were smiles But never merry-makings; where all days Jogged on sedately busy, with no haste; Where all seemed measured out, but margins broad: A dull home but a peaceful, where I felt My pupils would be dear young sisters soon, And felt their mother take me to her heart, Motherly to all lonely harmless things. But I must have a conscience, must blurt out My great discovery of my ignorance! And who required it of me? And who gained? What did it matter for a more or less The girls learnt in their schoolbooks, to forget In their first season? We did well together: They loved me and I them: but I went off To housemaid's pay, six crossgrained brats to teach, Wrangles and jangles, doubts, disgrace ... then this; And they had a perfection found for them, Who has all ladies' learning in her head Abridged and scheduled, speaks five languages, Knows botany and conchology and globes, Draws, paints, plays, sings, embroiders, teaches all On a patent method never known to fail: And now they're finished and, I hear, poor things, Are the worst dancers and worst dressers out. And where's their profit of those prison years All gone to make them wise in lesson-books? Who wants his wife to know weeds' Latin names? Who ever chose a girl for saying dates? Or asked if she had learned to trace a map? Well, well, the silly rules this silly world Makes about women! This is one of them. Why must there be pretence of teaching them What no one ever cares that they should know, What, grown out of the schoolroom, they cast off Like the schoolroom pinafore, no better fit For any use of real grown-up life, For any use to her who seeks or waits The husband and the home, for any use, For any shallowest pretence of use, To her who has them? Do I not know this, I, like my betters, that a woman's life, Her natural life, her good life, her one life, Is in her husband, God on earth to her, And what she knows and what she can and is Is only good as it brings good to him? Oh God, do I not know it? I the thing Of shame and rottenness, the animal That feed men's lusts and prey on them, I, I, Who should not dare to take the name of wife On my polluted lips, who in the word Hear but my own reviling, I know that. I could have lived by that rule, how content: My pleasure to make him some pleasure, pride To be as he would have me, duty, care, To fit all to his taste, rule my small sphere To his intention; then to lean on him, Be guided, tutored, lovedno not that word, That loved which between men and women means All selfishness, all cloying talk, all lust, All vanity, all idiocynot loved, But cared for. I've been loved myself, I think, Some once or twice since my poor mother died, But cared for, never:that's a word for homes, Kind homes, good homes, where simple children come And ask their mother is this right or wrong, Because they know she's perfect, cannot err; Their father told them so, and he knows all, Being so wise and good and wonderful, Even enough to scold even her at times And tell her everything she does not know. Ah the sweet nursery logic! Fool! thrice fool! Do I hanker after that too? Fancy me Infallible nursery saint, live code of law! Me preaching! teaching innocence to be good! A mother! Yet the baby thing that woke And wailed an hour or two, and then was dead, Was mine, and had he lived ... why then my name Would have been mother. But 'twas well he died: I could have been no mother, I, lost then Beyond his saving. Had he come before And lived, come to me in the doubtful days When shame and boldness had not grown one sense, For his sake, with the courage come of him, I might have struggled back. But how? But how? His father would not then have let me go: His time had not yet come to make an end Of my 'for ever' with a hireling's fee And civil light dismissal. None but him To claim a bit of bread of if I went, Child or no child: would he have given it me? He! no; he had not done with me. No help, No help, no help. Some ways can be trodden back, But never our way, we who one wild day Have given goodbye to what in our deep hearts The lowest woman still holds best in life, Good namegood name though given by the world That mouths and garbles with its decent prate, And wraps it in respectable grave shams, And patches conscience partly by the rule Of what one's neighbour thinks, but something more By what his eyes are sharp enough to see. How I could scorn it with its Pharisees, If it could not scorn me; but yet, but yet Oh God, if I could look it in the face! Oh I am wild, am ill, I think, to-night: Will no one come and laugh with me? No feast, No merriment to-night. So long alone! Will no one come? At least there's a new dress To try, and grumble atthey never fit To one's ideal. Yes, a new rich dress, With lace like this too, that's a soothing balm For any fretting woman, cannot fail; I've heard men say it ... and they know so well What's in all women's hearts, especially Women like me. No help! no help! no help! How could it be? It was too late long since Even at the first too late. Whose blame is that? There are some kindly people in the world, But what can they do? If one hurls oneself Into a quicksand, what can be the end, But that one sinks and sinks? Cry out for help? Ah yes, and, if it came, who is so strong To strain from the firm ground and lift one out? And how, so firmly clutching the stretched hand As death's pursuing terror bids, even so, How can one reach firm land, having to foot The treacherous crumbling soil that slides and gives And sucks one in again? Impossible path! No, why waste struggles, I or any one? What is must be. What then? I where I am, Sinking and sinking; let the wise pass by And keep their wisdom for an apter use, Let me sink merrily as I best may. Only, I think my brotherI forgot; He stopped his brotherhood some years ago But if he had been just so much less good As to remember mercy. Did he think How once I was his sister, prizing him As sisters do, content to learn for him The lesson girls with brothers all must learn, To do without? I have heard girls lament That doing so without all things one would, But I saw never aught to murmur at, For men must be made ready for their work And women all have more or less their chance Of husbands to work for them, keep them safe Like summer roses in soft greenhouse air That never guess 'tis winter out of doors: No, I saw never aught to murmur at, Content with stinted fare and shabby clothes And cloistered silent life to save expense, Teaching myself out of my borrowed books, While he for some one pastime, (needful, true, To keep him of his rank; 'twas not his fault) Spent in a month what could have given me My teachers for a year. 'Twas no one's fault: For could he be launched forth on the rude sea Of this contentious world and left to find Oars and the boatman's skill by some good chance? 'Twas no one's fault: yet still he might have thought Of our so different youths and owned at least 'Tis pitiful when a mere nerveless girl Untutored must put forth upon that sea, Not in the woman's true place, the wife's place, To trust a husband and be borne along, But impotent blind pilot to herself. Merciless, mercilesslike the prudent world That will not have the flawed soul prank itself With a hoped second virtue, will not have The woman fallen once lift up herself... Lest she should fall again. Oh how his taunts, His loathing fierce reproaches, scarred and seared Like branding iron hissing in a wound! And it was truethat killed me: and I felt A hideous hopeless shame burn out my heart, And knew myself for ever that he said, That which I wasOh it was true, true, true. No, not true then. I was not all that then. Oh, I have drifted on before mad winds And made ignoble shipwreck; not to-day Could any breeze of heaven prosper me Into the track again, nor any hand Snatch me out of the whirlpool I have reached; But then? Nay, he judged very well: he knew Repentance was too dear a luxury For a beggar's buying, knew it earns no bread And knew me a too base and nerveless thing To bear my first fault's sequel and just die. And how could he have helped me? Held my hand, Owned me for his, fronted the angry world Clothed with my ignominy? Or maybe Taken me to his home to damn him worse? What did I look for? for what less would serve That he could do, a man without a purse? He meant me well, he sent me that five pounds, Much to him then; and, if he bade me work And never vex him more with news of me, We both knew him too poor for pensioners. I see he did his best; I could wish now Sending it back I had professed some thanks. But there! I was too wretched to be meek: It seemed to me as if he, every one, The whole great world, were guilty of my guilt, Abettors and avengers: in my heart I gibed them back their gibings; I was wild. I see clear now and know one has one's life In hand at first to spend or spare or give Like any other coin; spend it, or give, Or drop it in the mire, can the world see You get your value for it, or bar off The hurrying of its marts to grope it up And give it back to you for better use? And if you spend or give, that is your choice; And if you let it slip, that's your choice too, You should have held it firmer. Yours the blame, And not another's, not the indifferent world's Which goes on steadily, statistically, And count by censuses not separate souls And if it somehow needs to its worst use So many lives of women, useless else, It buys us of ourselves; we could hold back, Free all of us to starve, and some of us, (Those who have done no ill, and are in luck) To slave their lives out and have food and clothes Until they grow unserviceably old. Oh, I blame no onescarcely even myself. It was to be: the very good in me Has always turned to hurt; all I thought right At the hot moment, judged of afterwards, Shows reckless. Why, look at it, had I taken The pay my dead child's father offered me For having been its mother, I could then Have kept life in memany have to do it, That swarm in the back alleys, on no more, Cold sometimes, mostly hungry, but they live I could have gained a respite trying it, And maybe found at last some humble work To eke the pittance out. Not I, forsooth, I must have spirit, must have womanly pride, Must dash back his contemptuous wages, I Who had not scorned to earn them, dash them back The fiercer that he dared to count our boy In my appraising: and yet now I think I might have taken it for my dead boy's sake; It would have been his gift. But I went forth With my fine scorn, and whither did it lead? Money's the root of evil do they say? Money is virtue, strength: money to me Would then have been repentance: could I live Upon my idiot's pride? Well, it fell soon. I had prayed Clement might believe me dead, And yet I begged of himThat's like me too, Beg of him and then send him back his alms! What if he gave as to a whining wretch That holds her hand and lies? I am less to him Than such a one; her rags do him no wrong, But I, I wrong him merely that I live, Being his sister. Could I not at least Have still let him forget me? But 'tis past: And naturally he may hope I am long dead. Good God! to think that we were what we were One to the other ... and now! He has done well; Married a sort of heiress, I have heard, A dapper little madam dimple cheeked And dimple brained, who makes him a good wife No doubt she'd never own but just to him, And in a whisper, she can even suspect That we exist, we other women things: What would she say if she could learn one day She has a sister-in-law? So he and I Must stand apart till doomsday. But the jest, To think how she would look!Her fright, poor thing! The notion!I could laugh outright ... or else, For I feel near it, roll on the ground and sob. Well, after all, there's not much difference Between the two sometimes. Was that the bell? Someone at last, thank goodness. There's a voice, And that's a pleasure. Whose though? Ah, I know. Why did she come alone, the cackling goose? Why not have brought her sister?she tells more And titters less. No matter; half a loaf Is better than no bread. Oh, is it you? 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